What Is The Odd / Even Rule For Gender Selection?

I sometimes have people contact me and ask how to implement the “even / odd” rule when trying to get a girl or boy baby.  Quite frankly, when answering, I’ve had to look this up to be sure that I understand it correctly.  These ancient ideas come from various cultures and civilizations and each seem to interpret the “rule” a little differently.

But, as I understand it, the basic premise is this:   There is an Ayurvedic train of thought which indicates that if you conceive on days with even numbers, you are more likely to get a boy.   And if you conceive on days with odd numbers, you are more likely to get a girl.  There is also a train of thought that you should breathe on a specific side of your nose when you wake up in the morning and should lay on one side over another when you go to sleep at night.   However, I get more correspondence about the even and odd days, as this seems to be a concept that is easy to understand and to carry out.

Here is my opinion on the same.  It’s certainly fun to try this, but from a scientific standpoint, I don’t see how it could possibly work.  Your ovulation period (when you can become pregnant) is going to vary from month to month.  One month it might start on an even number and one month it might start on an odd number simply because the months have varying numbers of days.   So limiting yourself to even or odd days are also limiting the amount of days that you have to work with in order to achieve a pregnancy.  These days are already limited, since a woman’s ovulation window only stays open for a small number of days.

Also, the baby’s gender is determined by whether or not an X (female) or Y (boy) sperm chromosome fertilizes the egg.  A man’s sperm contains both of these whether the day is even or odd.  Now, timing can be important in a baby’s gender.  Science tells us that the boy sperm does not live as long, so it’s beneficial to attempt to conceive after ovulation if you want a boy.  Again, there is no way to know if this is going to be on an even or odd number day.  But you want it to happen after you know that you have ovulated.  But once again, if you limit yourself to only even or odd numbers, then you may miss that very small window.

I suppose that whether this strategy is worth a shot or not depends on whether you want to take the scientific route or go another way.  It depends on how important your baby’s gender is to you.  If you just want to have fun and only have a small gender preference or none at all, then the even / odd rule might be fun to try.  But if you are very serious about your preference, then in my opinion, the scientific method has a much greater chance of success.  Because it is taking what we know about the the X and Y sperm and then using methods that whittle down the sperm that you don’t want fertilizing the egg while boosting the sperm that you do want.  This is a very methodical way to help you get the gender that you want and it doesn’t leave nearly as much to chance.

Leaving very little to chance is very important.  And the steps for this is different for each gender.   I’ve listed the steps for each gender on some free blogs.   If you want a boy baby, see  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.comIf you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

How Can A Man Help Conceive A Boy Baby? What About A Girl?

By: Sandy Dean: I sometimes hear from women who want to know that their boyfriend or husband needs to do to help them conceive a boy or girl baby. Occasionally, I hear from the men themselves who are trying to do everything in their power to help the woman they love get the baby gender of her choice. The truth is, there is plenty that a man can do to help conceive a boy or girl baby. But sometimes, his role is more of a supporting one, which might come as a surprise to you.

Here are a few examples.  Many people ask me what the man should be eating to achieve a certain sperm PH. Or they want to know if he should restrict himself in terms of food, exercise, or the clothing that he wears. The truth is, the PH of his sperm does not affect baby gender in the way that a woman’s PH does. Plus, men have a 50 / 50 ratio of Y to X sperm (boy and girl producing.) And this is typically true no matter what his family history is (in terms of baby gender) and no matter what makes up his diet.

There have been studies which show that even men who have had only boys or only girls still have these same ratios. I know that men can be desperate to help and are more than willing to tweak their diet or their lifestyle to help their partner get the gender that she wants. But this just isn’t necessary as it is vaginal PH (rather than sperm PH) that really matters.  With that said, there is definitely a part that a man can play, which I’ll discuss below.

Be Willing To Wait Until The Time Is Exactly Right To Have Sex: I know that it is very exciting when you are trying to conceive. When your wife or girlfriend gives you the green light that it’s time to make a baby, then it’s normal to want to get right to work and to let the fun begin. However, there is often a very good reason to wait. When you are trying to chose your baby’s gender, you often have a much smaller conception window than you would if you didn’t care about baby gender. Because if gender doesn’t matter, you can have sex anytime in the larger fertility window. But for a girl baby, you want to have sex only before ovulation. And for a boy, you want to only have sex after it. So there will only be a few ideal days for conception.  Some days will have to be passed up. Understand this and plan accordingly.

Know That You’ll Need To Invest In Some Tools And Do Some Detective Work: The biggest mistake that I see people make when they are trying to chose their baby’s gender at home is that they will assume that they know when they are ovulating without actually testing themselves. Or, they hope that they have the right PH without really knowing for sure. Guessing is the worst thing that you can do. Make sure your girlfriend or wife has a good ovulation predictor and PH tester and, more than that, make sure she uses it regularly and uses the applicable charts for both.

Understand That The Act Of Sex Many Not Be As Spontaneous As Usual: I know that it’s very romantic and exciting to think that when you have sex, you might be creating a baby. But it’s important that you decide on the sexual position that you will use ahead of time.  When you are not trying to conceive, being spontaneous with the timing of sex and the positions that you use is fine. But when you are trying to conceive, your sexual positions can matter a great deal. For a girl, you want to use shallow penetration. And for a boy, you need deep penetration. What positions that accomplish these things vary from couple to couple.

I know this might sound staged and planned (which isn’t as much fun,) but there’s a reason for this. Deep penetration helps the weaker boy producing sperm with the shorter shelf life. And shallow penetration is better for producing girl babies because it discourages those short lived Y’s (which contain boy producing sperm.)

I know that I’ve given you a lot to keep track of.  If it helps, I’ve put together a few websites that contain cheat sheets to take a lot of the guess work out of choosing your baby’s gender.   If you want a boy baby, check out http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com/

If you want a girl baby, check out http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/

Should We Have Sex On Even Or Odd Days For A Boy Baby? What About For A Girl?

By: Sandy Dean: I often have people who ask me about the optimal time to have sexual intercourse in order to get pregnant with a certain gender. Many people realize that the day on which they conceive can be a very important factor in terms of whether they get a girl or boy baby. To that end, people sometimes ask or wonder if they should be having intercourse on even or odd days.

Someone might ask: “my husband and I would like to have a boy baby. My mother in law said that you should have sex on odd days for a boy baby and on even days for a girl. I told her that this is probably an old wives tale but she swears that this is true. How can this possibly be accurate?”

I honestly don’t believe it is accurate. I think that people probably gave this advice back in the old days because they thought that this advice would ensure that a couple was only having sex every other day and therefore ensuring a high sperm count during conception.

Understanding How Pregnancy Happens: One way to show you how this theory is a bit outlandish is to understand how a woman gets pregnant. A woman is fertile during a time period just before, after and during her ovulation period. This spans different time frames for different women, but it is only a few or a handful of days out of each month. If you are having sex on alternating days, then you are cutting into an already small window with no consideration given to when you can actually become pregnant.

Variables For Gender Selection: Now, let’s look at what might help you get a girl or boy baby. A man’s sperm has two different chromosomes that affect baby gender – Y (boy producing) and X (girl producing). These chromosomes have different characteristics. The X or girl producing live for longer and the Y or boy producing are faster.

That is why when you want a girl baby, you’re advised to have intercourse before ovulation. And you’re encouraged to wait until after this time frame when you want a boy. Notice that it doesn’t matter if either of these days are even or odd. As an example. Let’s say your menstrual period happened on the fifteen of the month. Now, let’s say you ovulate on the first day of the next month and you want a boy. Because having intercourse after ovulation is important for a boy baby, your optimal day to have sex is going to be the 2nd and after. The 3rd was also work. Notice that one day is even and one day is odd, but they are both optimal for a boy baby because they happen after ovulation.

To answer the original question though, the best day isn’t either or odd. It is the day before or after your ovulation day depending on which gender you want.  To take it even further than that, the best day is not only when your timing is right, but when your PH is right also.  PH and sexual positions matter too.  And none of these things have anything to do with odd and even days on the calendar.

If you’d like step by step instructions of how to combine all of these variables and when, I’ve put together a few websites that explain it more directly. If you want a girl baby, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com If you want a boy, check out  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com

If An Egg Is Not Released When Sperm Is Present, What Happens In Terms Of Baby Gender

By: Sandy Dean:  It is understandable that when you decide that you want to conceive, you can be motivated to start right away.  The idea of having a baby and starting a family is very exciting.  Most people realize that there’s only one small period of time in each month where pregnancy is possible.  So if you do not have success, then you have to wait an entire month or so (depending on ovulation cycles) to try again.  Some people have sex before ovulation because they are just anxious to start the process.  And some do it because they want a girl baby and they want for the egg to be waiting on the sperm.

Unfortunately, things do not always go as planned.  Sometimes, the couple think that they will know when the woman might ovulate and then it turns out that she doesn’t ovulate when planned – even though they have already attempted to conceive.  This leaves them to wonder what happens afterward.

For example, someone might say: “my husband and I decided that we wanted to conceive as soon as possible. We read that for a girl conception, you should conceive before ovulation.  I figured that I would ovulate 14 days after my period, so we had sex 9 days after that.   We figured that I would ovulate before day 14 and we figured that this would be okay since sperm can live for 5 days.  I used ovulation predictor strips (like the pregnancy kind where you use urine) and I have not gotten a positive yet, which should mean that I have not ovulated.  So what happens to that sperm?  Does it hang around until the next attempt? Does it have any bearing on gender when we try again?”

Sperm that doesn’t fertilize an egg basically deteriorates and dies off in the the same way that an egg does when it isn’t fertilized.  Neither has any bearing on the next attempt at conception.  Since both have basically died off in the body, you are starting fresh the next time.   When you want a boy baby, the process is a little more simple because in that case you can simply wait until you know that ovulation has taken place and then have sex.  Not all women ovulate midway through their cycle, so you really need to test to make sure. (Although you want to make sure that vaginal PH and sexual positions are also optimal.)  But when you want a girl, you have to plan a little more.

I know that you’re anxious to get started, but it can help to watch your cycle for a few months if you are trying for a girl OR to get a saliva ovulation predictor which can help you see what is happening several days before ovulation occurs.  This gives you more flexibililty than the urine predictors, particularly when you are trying for a girl. (Here’s an example of what I am talking about on Ebay.)

If you know that you haven’t ovulated and that the sperm is outside of its viability (and 5 days really is generous.  That’s the maximum amount of time that sperm can live) then you can always have sex again and continue to test.  But you really only should do this if you know that your PH is correct.  If not, you are better off waiting until the next month so you have the confidence that you have addressed everything that you can.  If you wait, then the sperm simply dies off and you start fresh the next time.

Since you might be trying again next month, now is the perfect time to begin charting your ovulation and to begin checking and monitoring you vaginal PH.  That way, you will have all of the bases covered the next time.  If the process and variables are still a bit confusing, I’ve tried to simplify it for you.   I’ve listed the steps on some free blogs.   If you want a boy baby, see  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.comIf you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

Can A Man Make His Sperm Conceive A Boy Or Girl Baby? Can He Influence Whether He’s Producing Girl Or Boy Sperm?

By: Sandy Dean: I sometimes hear from women who are either with a man who has had many children of one gender or the woman is in that same situation herself.  For example, the woman may have conceived all daughters or she has recently married a man with all sons.  Often, the couple are trying to reverse that trend and get a baby of a new gender.  And they are often wondering if the man has any control over which sperm chromosomes he will produce during this process.

I heard from a woman who said: “I had three boys with my previous husband.  I am getting married to a man who also has two boys.  Needless to say, I want a girl baby with my new husband.  I have been very clear about this and my husband is telling me that he can control his sperm.  I told him that this is crazy talk but he says that he can control what happens with his thinking and with his diet.  Can men control whether they are producing boy and girl sperm?  He is telling me that he will make sure that I get a girl baby this time and I know that he wants to please me.  But is this a promise that he can even make?  Is this even possible?”

I wish that I could tell you that this was true.  But I don’t believe that it is.  I will tell you why in the following article.

There Is Overwhelming Evidence That Men Have Equal Amounts Of Both Girl And Boy Producing Sperm Regardless Of The Gender They Have Previously Produced:

There have been studies where men who have produced several of one gender have been tested to determine their sperm production ratio.  Some expected to find that men who had only produced boys had more Y (boy producing) than X (girl producing) sperm. And, it would also be expected that fathers of nothing but daughters would have much higher amounts of X sperm.

But, this was not the case.  Instead, all of the men showed equal amounts of each type of sperm chromosome regardless of whether they had boys or girls.  I know that this is suprising to many, but this has been shown more than once.   So if we accept that the man in question very likely had equal amounts of X and Y sperm, he already had an equal chance of getting a girl baby, unless the woman or mother to be was influencing the outcome which I will discuss a little later.

Although There Are Things That Men Can Do To Increase Their Sperm Count, They Can’t Isolate The Sperm That They Are Increasing:

If you’ve spent any amount of time researching becoming pregnant, you’ve probably already read about how men can increase their sperm count to have a better chance of conceiving quickly.  But, although they can increase their sperm, they are also increasing both X and Y chromosome relatively equally.  And they aren’t increasing only the X’s and not the Y’s or vice versa.

Consider Looking At How The Mother To Be Might Be Contributing To Baby Gender:

Since the father to be’s sperm ratio appears to be set, it makes sense to look at how the woman or the mother to be is contributing.  It’s a common assumption that she doesn’t contribute at all, but I highly disagree with this.

Her timing, vaginal PH, and the sexual positions that she uses can all make one gender more likely than another.  For example, some things  can discourage the Y sperm which means that a girl baby is more likely.  Having a successful conception before ovulation, having an acidic vaginal PH, and using deep penetration without female orgasm would all help to weed out the Y sperm to increase the odds of getting a boy baby.

So if you are a female who is conceiving one gender over and over again, I would take a close look at your vaginal PH as well as your ovulation time as it relates to when you are having conception intercourse.

But to answer the question posed, while it’s reassuring to think that a man can think powerful thoughts or change his diet to get the gender of his choice, it’s not likely to happen because his ratio is going to be roughly 50 / 50 no matter what.  While there are things that he can do to increase his sperm count, these things will increase both X and Y sperm in equal ratios and this doesn’t change no matter what he does or thinks.  I wish it were different but science has shown that it isn’t.

The good news is that the woman often is able to control some variables as far as she is concerned.  So it makes sense to turn your attention there.

If this is still a bit confusing to you or you’re wondering where to start to influence your baby’s gender, I’ve put together a couple of web sites that breaks this down into small steps.  If you want a boy baby, check out http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com/

If you want a girl baby, check out http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/

If I Get A Positive Ovulation Test, When Should I Have Sex To Get A Boy Baby?

By: Sandy Dean: Many people realize that it’s very important to know precisely when you ovulate when you are trying to chose your baby’s gender at home. But sometimes, it isn’t so clear what should you do once you get that positive that tells you that ovulation is imminent.

I heard from someone who said: “I’ve been testing for ovulation since the last couple of days of my period. I wasn’t sure when I ovulated and I didn’t want to risk missing it. Finally, I got a positive reading this morning. I want a boy baby, so when should I start having sex? What does this positive reading really tell you? My husband is at work. Should I call him home? Or should I wait a little while to have sex?”

It’s very important that you read the instructions that come with your kit. Most will spell out exactly what a positive reading means. However, with this said, most of the time, a positive reading means that an LH surge has been detected. The test is telling you that there is the presence of luteinizing hormone and this generally happens right before you ovulate. Granted, there are certain medical conditions (like polycystic ovary syndrome or PCOS) that cause people to produce this hormone without ovulation being imminent. But if you have one of these conditions, you probably already know it and are under a doctor’s care. Most people agree that a positive reading means that you will be ovulating within 12 – 24 hours. And if you are testing every day and you tested negative yesterday, then it’s a pretty good guess that the luteinizing hormone was released very recently and that by tomorrow or very soon thereafter, ovulation would have already passed.

That means that by tomorrow or so, your egg should be ready to be fertilized. Now, boy producing or Y sperm are faster than girl producing or X sperm, but they also die off more quickly. That is why it is beneficial to wait have sex until after ovulation when you want a son. Since you know that this time period is either happening right now or will happen very soon, it makes sense to go ahead and have intercourse as soon as is feasible. Your egg can live for a day or two before it starts to deteriorate. So it is best to not wait too long. Since the boy sperm dies off relatively quickly as well, it makes sense to try to optimize the health of both the egg and the sperm. That’s why I think it makes sense to go ahead and begin having sex shortly after you get a positive reading.

With that said, I don’t think that you need to call your husband to rush home right that very minute. But having sex that evening is probably optimal. Many people ask if they should continue having sex after the initial positive reading. This can be a good idea when you are trying for a boy because you are maximizing each attempt. Since more sperm chromosomes are released this way, this gives you more speedy and healthy boy sperm that is fighting for the egg. However, this isn’t thought to be optimal if you want a girl baby. Most couples that are trying for a girl will have stopped having sex once they get the positive reading. Because a girl conception is more likely if you conceive early since the girl sperm have greater longevity. So for people that want a girl, that positive reading signals the time to stop intercourse and wait to see if you are pregnant.  If not, you simply try again the next month.  For couples wanting a boy thought, that positive reading is usually a green light to begin having sex relatively quickly.

I hope this article has helped you with your timing.  But know that your PH and the sexual positions you use are also important in choosing your baby’s gender.  If you’re confused about either one of these variables, I’ve put together a few websites that take a lot of the guess work out of this.

If you want a boy baby, check out http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com/

If you want a girl baby, check out http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/

Does It Make Sense To Continue To Have Sex After Ovulation Stops When Trying To Become Pregnant?

By: Sandy Dean: I sometimes hear from people who are trying to become pregnant as soon as possible. Because of this, they know that they may have to be more deliberate about the timing of their love making. Sure, you can become pregnant by just having sex whenever you feel like it and letting nature take its course, but this might take longer than if you tested for ovulation and then had sex on or around that time in a very deliberate way.

Many people aren’t sure how far to take this though. They will test for ovulation, get a positive, and then be unsure as to when or if they should stop having sex in an attempt to conceive. So, I might hear a comment like: “I understand why people chose to abstain before ovulation happens. They are trying to make sure that their sperm count is high. But what about after ovulation? Does it make sense to keep having sex a couple of days after you get the positive reading? Because at that point, ovulation would have stopped and you are not likely to become pregnant.”

This Depends Upon If There Is A Gender You’d Prefer: My answer to this question really depends upon if you care about your baby’s gender and, if so, which gender you prefer. Here’s why. Having sex prior to ovulation gives you a better chance to conceive a girl baby because the early timing isn’t friendly to the short-lived, boy-producing sperm. By conceiving this early, you are hoping that many of the boy sperm will no longer be present by the time that the fertilization takes place. However, if you are in the situation where are definitely trying for a girl baby, then it is best to stop having sex once you get the positive ovulation reading.

The reason for this is that having sex after ovulation favors a boy baby for the reasons that I described above. If the boy sperm are present at the time of conception (and they are more likely to be if you have sex after ovulation) then they have a slight advantage because they are faster to the egg. So, if you want a boy, your best bet is to wait to get that positive ovulation reading and then go ahead and have sex. From a gender standpoint, continuing to have sex after ovulation if you want a boy isn’t going to hurt your goal. But if you want a girl, this isn’t something that you’d want to do.

Concerns About The Health Of The Sperm After Ovulation: Now, some people are of the mind set that you should stop having sex a couple of days after ovulation because you are increasing your chances of having weak sperm fertilize your egg and this increases the chances of having a miscarriage or a troubled pregnancy. There are lots of differences of opinion about this. But if this is something that worries or concerns you, then there is no harm is stopping intercourse shortly after ovulation and then resuming it well afterwards, knowing that, since you have already ovulated, you are very unlikely to become pregnant until the next month anyway.

It really just depends upon your comfort level and on the baby gender that you want. If you’re attempting to get a girl baby, it would go against your goal to continue to have sex. This timing would be more favorable to a boy baby, but if you’re worried about fertilizing her egg with deteriorating sperm, then it might make sense to relax your conception attempts until you are sure ovulation is more than over.

Plus, it’s not just timing that is important.  If you truly want a specific gender, you’ll also want to consider your diet and PH and the sexual positions used.  If you’d like more specific information on how all of this fits together, I’ve put together a few websites that explain it step by step. If you want a boy baby, check out http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com If you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

If You Can Not Have An Orgasm, What Are The Chances Of Having A Son?

By: Sandy Dean:  If you have been researching methods to get a son, you likely already know that you want to have an alkaline PH in order to have the best chance of making this happen.  Female orgasm makes PH more alkaline, which is very convenient if you frequently have an orgasm when you are trying to conceive.  But this reality isn’t true of all women.  And some might wonder if your chances are significantly increased if you can’t always achieve this.

Someone might say: “under normal circumstances, I might have an orgasm 50 percent of the time.  It is just not that easy for me.  However, I am trying to become pregnant right now and we want a boy.  So we are using deep penetration when we have sex and these positions do not lend themselves to me having an orgasm.  Plus, I tense up when I think that we are trying to conceive.  So I don’t usually achieve orgasm when we are actively trying to become pregnant.  Will this mean that I can’t have a boy?”

In my opinion, this absolutely should not mean that you can not have a son.  Female orgasm is just ONE way to get an alkaline PH, but there are certainly other ways.  You can use foods.  You can use douching.  And you may already be relatively alkaline (although you won’t know that until you test.)

Plus, there are two other variables that go into baby gender (timing and sexual positions.)  Yes, you want to cover all three variables, but you can still cover the PH variable using food or douching. And even if for some reason you weren’t successful, taking care of your timing and your sexual positions should still help the odds for you to get a boy.

When you are taking this approach, every variable that you are successful with increases your odds. Each time you address a variable, you are making sure that the Y or boy producing sperm has the best chance to fertilize the egg and you are trying to discourage the X or girl producing sperm. (That’s why it’s optimal to be successful at all three variables because that is giving you the best chance.)  But even success with one variable should theoretically raise your odds.

Of course, it helps to experiment with sexual positions and to relax during sex when you want to orgasm.  But I don’t think that it’s necessarily a deal breaker if you can’t.  And stressing over it just makes it less likely to happen.  So just cover the bases that you can and try to relax and actually enjoy the conception process.  If you did nothing, you’d still have 50 / 50 odds.  By addressing everything that you can, you increase those odds, which is always a good thing.

If it were me, I would know my PH going into this.  And then I would tweak my diet and douche as necessary.  And I’d continue to test to see how different things affect me   Once you are aware of these numbers, there are some good resources to help you determine the optimal range for a boy baby.  I’ve listed some of the resources on some free blogs.   If you want a boy baby, see  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.comIf you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

Is There Any Way To Tell If My PH Is Naturally Acidic Or Alkaline Before Conceiving If I Don’t Have A Way To Test? Can You Go By Smell Or Appearance Or Secretions?

By: Sandy Dean:  If you are researching conceiving the gender of your choice, you probably are starting to realize that your vaginal PH has a lot to do with your ability to be successful in choosing your baby’s gender.  If your vaginal PH is alkaline, you’re more likely to have a boy.  If it is acidic, you are more likely to have a girl.  Some women tend to stay in one range over the course of their lifetime.  Others find that even small variables make their PH swing wildly.  Some women are lucky enough to be in the right general range for their desired gender.  For example, someone who wants a girl may already be quite acidic and so then all she would need to do would be to test herself right before she conceives to make sure her PH is still correct. If so,  she could then turn her attention to using the correct timing and to the correct sexual positions.  But how do you know if you are in the right range and if not, how far out of range you are?

I sometimes have people ask me if you can tell if you are acidic or alkaline by smell or by the texture of secretions.  For example, someone might say: “I want a boy baby.  And I know that I need to be alkaline for this to happen.  I don’t have a PH tester.  And I know that I can’t know my exact PH without one, but is there anyway to know if I’m just generally alkaline?  I’ve heard that if you are acidic, you will have a lot of vaginal infections and you’ll have grey discharge or notice a fishy smell.  Is this true?  I do have a lot of infections, but there isn’t always a strong smell.”

Your vaginal secretions change during your ovulation cycle.  The mucus changes in texture in anticipation of ovulation in order to make it easier for the sperm to fertilize the egg.  So, while I’m not a doctor, I think that gauging your PH based on these secretions isn’t a great idea as they are constantly changing anyway.  While bad bacteria can thrive in an elevated PH, this is indication of an infection and not what your PH might be when you normally are not infected.   Not only that, but your PH can change because of your diet, because you have sex (female orgasm can change PH significantly) and for other reasons.  That’s why women who are trying to choose their baby’s gender are encouraged to check their PH very often and then make tweaks as necessary.

Honestly, PH testers are very inexpensive.  While you’re at it, check out the reusable ovulation predictors that make your timing easier.  (Here’s an example of some on Ebay.) It’s so important to know your PH while you are actively trying to conceive.  And since it can change, it’s important to continue to test regularly.  Unfortunately, I don’t know of a reliable way to know your PH other than to quickly, easily, and cheaply test yourself.  Once you know your number, there are some good resources to help you determine the optimal range for a boy baby.  I’ve listed some of the resources on some free blogs.   If you want a boy baby, see  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.comIf you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

If You Conceive In The Same Month As Your First Child Will The Gender Be The Same?

By: Sandy Dean:  It’s not uncommon for women who already have a baby of one gender to assume that they are likely to get the same gender when they become pregnant again.  What I mean by that is that mothers of daughters might suspect that they will have difficulty conceiving a son the second time around and vice verse.  Some worry that the method that they used the first time around might come into play this time.

For example, a woman who had a girl might say: “for my first pregnancy, I conceived in June and had a daughter.  This was ideal because the part of my pregnancy when I became big occurred when it was not so hot outside and I was comfortable.  I honestly wouldn’t mind conceiving in the summer again, but this time I want a boy.  One of my friends say that if I conceive in the same month as I did with my daughter, then I will have another girl.  Is this true?”

Well, it could be true, but not because of the month in which you conceived.  Unless you are using special methods to get the gender of your choice, you have about a 50 / 50 chance of getting either gender. A man’s sperm has equal numbers of girl and boy producing sperm and this doesn’t change, no matter what month you are trying to conceive in. Things that can influence baby gender are: the woman’s vaginal PH; the sexual positions used; whether orgasm took place (because it changes vaginal PH,) and when the woman ovulated in relation to when she attempted to conceive.  None of these things have anything to do with the month or the season.  And you can change these variables at any time during the year.

So for example, when you conceived in June, you may have had an acidic PH (which is hostile to boy sperm) and you may have ovulated before ovulation and used shallow penetration when you attempted to conceive.  All of these things would have discouraged boy sperm and encouraged girl sperm.  As you might deduct, if you had used the same methods in November, you may have gotten the same result.

So yes, if you do nothing the odds may give you the same gender that you had before as you have 50 / 50 odds anyway.  But if you want the opposite gender, then you’d just change up the variables needed for a boy (an alkaline PH, conceiving after ovulation, and the right sexual positions.) This can be done January through December, to be honest.  So there would be no reason that you could not conceive a boy in June.  You’d just want to keep an eye on the variables mentioned above.

To help you better understand how the variables come into play and when to implement each one, I’ve put together a couple of free websites that outline the process to choose your baby’s gender step by step.  If you want a boy baby, see  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.comIf you want a girl, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com

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