Can A Woman Control Baby Gender During Intercourse?

By: Sandy Dean: I sometimes hear from women who very much want to chose or control their baby’s gender. They often are thinking about this well before they actually attempt to become pregnant. But often, they are most wondering about this either right before or during intercourse. Because they know that this is most likely to time period that is going to determine whether they have a boy or girl.

I might hear from someone who asks: “my husband and I are trying to become pregnant. Quite honestly, he doesn’t care whether we have a boy or girl. He says as long as our baby is healthy and happy, he doesn’t have a preference. I know that this is going to sound silly and selfish. But frankly, I do have a preference. I want a girl. I want to be able to enjoy female things with my daughter like shopping, cooking, and crafts. I want to be able to braid my daughter’s hair and make and buy pretty outfits for her. I know that I would love whatever child the universe blessed us with. But I have a definite preference. I am not very athletic so I can’t even imagine playing sports or rough housing with a boy. My question is whether there is anything that I can do during intercourse to control my baby’s gender? I am ovulating now and I plan to have intercourse tonight. What can I do to make sure that I get my preference?”

Well, there are some things that you can try. But I have to tell you that these things work better with a little preplanning. I’ll explain why. There are basically three things that affect your baby’s gender: the timing of when you conceive in relation to when you have ovulated; the sexual positions that you use when you conceive; and your vaginal PH at the time of conception.

Why are these things important? Because they directly affect the experience that the girl producing and boy producing sperm have as they race for the egg. For example, having intercourse before you ovulate favors a girl baby. And, a woman’s orgasm favors a boy (while the lack of an orgasm favors a girl.) Finally, an acidic PH for the woman favors a girl baby.

There is a reason for all of these things but I know that you don’t want to be bogged down with a long explanation. But briefly, when you want a girl baby, then you need to do everything in your power to weaken or kill off the body producing sperm. And it helps to know that boy sperm are very fast but they are also very fleeting. They don’t live as long as girl sperm, which is why you want to have intercourse before ovulation. Also, boy sperm don’t like an acidic environment, which is why you want to have an acidic vaginal PH and you want to avoid orgasm because this makes the vagina more alkaline.

Now, of these three variables, one of them has passed. She had already ovulated. So she could either proceed knowing that the optimal timing has passed or she could wait until next month. No one can make that decision except for her. If she was going to proceed, she could try douching to make sure her PH was alkaline. (You can test yourself with PH test strips first to see where you are and where you need to go.) Plus, you can avoid orgasm to make sure that your PH stays acidic. Finally, you can use shallow penetration because this gives you the weaker boy sperm a more difficult trip.

If you’d like step by step instructions of how to do this and when, I’ve put together a few websites that explain it step by step. If you want a girl baby, see If you want a boy, check out

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