If the Man That I Love Already Has A Daughter, What Are My Odds Of Having A Girl?

By: Sandy Dean: I often hear from folks who are in a situation where they know that they are going to be attempting to conceive a baby soon. And, they prefer one gender over another. Many feel very strongly about this. And they are looking at their unique situation and wondering if it favors one gender over another. And, if it does, they want to know how to tweak things in order to have the best chance of getting the baby that they want.

One example is a woman who is going to conceive with a man who has already has daughters. I might hear a comment like: “this is going to be my second marriage. The man that I love already has one daughter. I have a son already. My future husband and I have decided to begin trying to conceive. I would like to have a daughter. And I am hoping that the fact that he already has one daughter means that I have better odds of getting a girl. The fact that I have already produced one boy bothers me. It makes me think that I am more prone to having boys. But, the fact that he is more prone to having girls makes me hope that this is all going to balance out. Since the man determines the baby’s gender more than the woman, are my odds good for having a girl?”

Understand That The Man Alone Does Not Determine Baby Gender: While it’s true that it is the man’s sperm chromosome that fertilizes the egg which determines the baby’s sex, I am not sure that I would agree that it is only the man who determines baby gender. There are many things that can affect this. And frankly, men have equal numbers of sperm that can make a girl and sperm that can make a boy. I know that you may have been hoping that your  fiancé has only girl producing sperm and that there’s just no chance that you will get a boy. But this isn’t how it works since men have equal amounts of both.

However, I do believe that women have more of an influence on their baby’s gender than they think. Let’s think about it for a second. The man is contributing both boy and girl producing sperm. So the odds are not stacked either way when you don’t try to intervene. But if the woman’s PH is acidic, this discourages the boy sperm. If it is alkaline, it encourages the boy sperm. Your PH can sway your odds.  So, since this woman had a boy, there was a chance that she was naturally alkaline. She can check this quite easily. And, if she finds herself alkaline, she can do a couple of things to make herself more acidic. This would help raise her odds for a girl.

Variables That Change The Odds: Another thing that could increase her odds is to make sure that she conceives before ovulation. The boy producing sperm may not live for long enough to make it to the egg if they sit for a long time. Along this same line of thinking, shallow penetration helps extend the life span that is required, which is better when you’re trying for a girl.

I don’t want to discourage anyone. Having a girl conception in your fiancé’s past certainly isn’t a bad thing. But his ex wife could have been acidic or they could have conceived early. You don’t know those variables. My best advice is to find out your natural PH and then tweak accordingly. Then, know your ovulation day and plan well ahead of it. Because in terms of the man, his sperm are equally represented. But there are things that a woman can do to sway the odds in her favor.

It’s important to know all of the steps (timing, PH, and sexual positions) and to be ready for them when the time is right. If you’d like step by step instructions on how to do this and when, I’ve put together a few websites that explain it step by step. If you want a girl baby, see http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com If you want a boy, check out  http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com

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